About
I believe every couple deserves to feel found again.
My work is rooted in one simple truth: love isn't something you lose — it's something you sometimes forget how to tend.
My Story
How I came to this work
I didn't come to relationship coaching through a textbook. I came through my own marriage — through the years when my husband and I felt more like co-managers of a household and housemates rather than partners in a life or lovers.
We weren't unhappy, exactly. We were just... friends and we were distant. The rituals that had once made us feel close had quietly disappeared, replaced by schedules and obligations, stress and the comfortable numbness of routine that is so validated by culture.
It took a deliberate, sometimes uncomfortable journey — to find our way back to each other. That experience changed everything for me. I experienced a loss of wholeness and fulfillment that can only be experienced through different types of real intimacy. I trained, I studied, and I built The Relationship Ritual around the thing I'd learned most deeply: that intimacy is a practice, not a feeling. It's something you choose and tend, every day.
"The couples I work with don't need to be fixed. They need to be reminded of who they are and who they can be to each other."
My Philosophy
Intimacy is a practice, not a feeling.
Safety first
Nothing meaningful can happen without emotional safety. Every session begins by creating a space where both of you can speak honestly without fear of judgment.
Small rituals, extra-ordinary shifts
Transformation doesn't come from grand gestures. It comes from the small, consistent acts of attention and care that say: I see you. I choose you. I'm here.
Solution Based
We honor your history without being held hostage by it. Coaching is about building the relationship you want — not endlessly revisiting the one you've had.
Grounded in expertise, guided by heart
- Authentic Tantra- Buddhist Tantra
- Certified Relationship Coach
- Layla Martin- Relationship Transformation through Integrated Tantra and Somatic Healing
- Gottman based theory
- 10+ years experience with modern relationship theory- Attachment theory, Esther Perel
Ready to take the first step?
A free discovery call is a chance for us to meet, for you to ask questions, and for both of us to feel whether this is the right fit.